Why do so many Men in particular having to get to breaking point or something bad has happening before they get help?
REASON 1: CONTROL – The Internal Dialogue and Self Talk that says “She’ll Be Right” I can sort this out on my own… (This is usually about needing to be in Control)
REASON 2: FEAR – Fear of being Vulnerable or feeling Weak.. (This is the Weakness in and of itself)
These reasons are very common with High Achievers as the Need to be in Control and Strong have served them well in Life but then these traits can become Self-Sabotaging.
We live in a different World than our parents and grandparents MEN need to Evolve more than ever to be The Best Leaders, Husbands, Fathers, Business Owners, Role Models and most Important Love Themselves
You don’t have to be Broken or get to Breaking Point to go on a Deep Self Transformation (This will create your Ultimate Strength)
Talking with a client last few weeks who has a very high soul and Energetic Vibration Rate …
This is both powerful for him to create and manifest abundance in business , but detrimental when not in control of his Energy in certain environments
What happens with him and many of our clients is they get effecting by Environments that are low energy and rush through life trying to be in Environments that are high Energy
This ultimately leaves us allowing the environment to control us vs maintaining a high energy in all environments
Listen in to this Video🎥 , its deeper than most of my Videos but soooo important for everyone to reflect on
Are you in control of your Energy or are you allowing your environments to control your energy ❓
There is More money in the world right now than ever in history
So why do so many people struggle or worry about Money all the time
It’s 2 things:
Your Money Mindset
👉When you have a poor Money Mindset you think there is a lack of it
👉You are afraid of changing careers or businesses to do something your passionate about
👉You never feel like you have enough
👉You get triggered by World events e.g. Inflation, Pandemics
Where does this Lack Money Mindset come from?
Your Past Generations
Who lived through the Industrial Revolution, World Wars, Great Depressions
when it was predominantly Upper Class & Lower Class (Middle Class was very small)
But now Middle Class is huge yet they carry unconscious Lower Class Money Blocks past down
Your Money Energy
This is incredibly important and powerful
We all have an Energy behind Money or what it truly represents to use as an individual
👉Power
👉Safety
👉Freedom
👉Pride
👉Connection
👉Peace
If you are not living in alignment with your Energy behind Money then you won’t attract it
Example:
My energetic quality behind Money is Power , meaning the more Money I have the Power I have to do good with it
However for Most of my life I would give away my Power to try make Money …
My sacrifices and obsession with Money took away my Power and limited the amount of Money I attracted …
I would work harder & harder never thinking I had enough or constantly thinking of new ways to make more Money ultimately killing my Power …
🙌 I must be in my Power first to then elevate my energy to attract Money
Once you understand this, and your Energetic quality behind Money you’ll understand it’s abundant and available to attract
I was talking with a Client about how much Alcohol plays a huge part in his life and how badly he wants to cut it out …
This client is a very Successful Businessmen in the Construction Industry, so his friends all the way back from high school through to his staff, clients and colleagues …
A lot of his catch ups are revolved Alcohol 🍺
I can relate to my clients so deeply on this topic as I grew up around Alcohol, it was everywhere and become a big part of my Identity from school mates, Rugby, Corporate culture and so on
Wo why do we struggle to cut back or quit Alcohol when we know it doesn’t serve us or it’s holding us back ?
Because it is part of our Identity, and trying to Stop or Quit drinking Alcohol requires an Identity shift …
And to change your Identity for a better version of yourself is hard, confronting and for most people virtually impossible without help
If you want to hear the advice I gave him … the please watch this Video (Its 7mins long) as I share a key part in how to change his Identity and Relationship with Alcohol
What stage of your Leadership evolution are you in?
Whether you Own a Business or run a Corporation leadership is an ongoing journey and is so much more than your position professionally
What stage of your Leadership are you in?
STAGE ONE – Start-up
You’re doing or across everything… end to end sales, fulfilment, recruitment, build and maintaining a team, cashflow management etc …
👉 Your biggest Leadership challenge is self preservation and not burning yourself out
STAGE TWO – Team is in place silos and divisions of being formed, training, coaching and leadership evolution is paramount to maintaining your team and elevating your team into leadership management roles,
👉 Your Biggest Leadership challenge is Coaching ability to bring the best out in your people
STAGE THREE – Completely removing yourself from business operations, so you can invest time in your genius zone, working on the Business Development and Strategic Direction … Conscious Leadership evolution is paramount , coaching, business development and potential product development at this stage you need time to be creative
👉 Your Biggest Leadership challenge is you forgot to evolve the above 2 correctly and you now feel the fatigue and exhaustion from years of hustle and grind …
The biggest challenge facing leaders in business and corporate is getting stuck between stage one and two it is easy to look at all the external factors that have caused you to feel stuck in either stage but the truth is everything is so centered around you as the leader.
Its time to evolve Mentally, Energetically and Spiritually to elevate every area of your life
Key understanding leadership is not one-dimensional if you are not congruent with your leadership in how you look after yourself mentally, emotionally and spiritually, your loving relationships and private life plus your business you will struggle to be the greatest leader
Why Does The Masculine Make Things More Complex than it needs to be?
The illusion of control & the Egos desperate need to be in control so it feels safe, loved and worthy
The Masculine feels like it has to figure everything out and if it can’t figure it out , then it searches for more complex solutions to fix the problems as it’s programmed to believe nothing comes easy in life
This becomes the exact reason why we get stuck, frustrated and can’t move forward
The constant internal fight between force (Masculine) and flow (Feminine)
If you’re someone who is constantly trying to figure it all out your allowing the Ego to pull the handbrake on your life
The Solution is to heal the Masculine the Masculine Worldwide needs to heal to make room for the feminine (flow) to balance out the masculine (force)
Where do you start?
Surrender to the simple pleasures in life , start healing your heart ❤️ by connecting with it frequently
