The Closest Relationships require the Most Effort ❤
1 in 3 Marriages end in divorced , and those that stick it out often feel they have drifted apart …
So we find a Love Partner and all is amazing, honeymoon period, Intimacy, Sex life, connection and communication is at a high…
Then the relationship matures , you plan your financial future together, start working harder , longer hours … Then you may plan and have a family , babies and children start taking up more and more of your time …
FIRST thing that goes is the Intimacy, Sex Life reduces to almost non existent or once a week at best …
SECOND thing that goes is the Connection, the Love and wanting to be close and around each other
THIRD thing that goes is the Communication, more often than not you’re in the Drama Triangle , arguing and bickering at each other over mindless crap … But negative communication becomes common place , you’re tired, exhausted, feel unsupported and not on the same page or aligned anymore
FOURTH stage is Resentment, Hate, Anger and Avoidance , you feel like the relationship is to far gone , you’re avoiding each other to Avoid the conflict… You’re losing yourself in your Phone to escape these feelings …
And you end up Separating or living in a Loveless relationship !
💕 Now if you care enough to fight for your Relationship / Marriage then you have to focus on you and not your partner … Someone has to become the bigger person and do the hard work to turn things around …
👉 But first you must focus on yourself, because as your Marriage has gone downhill so have you , and all your own Limitations, Insecurities and Negative Emotions have been triggered …
🙌 The Key to rebuilding Close Relationships is starting with the Relationship with yourself, work on yourself and bring the best version of you to your Relationships so you can be strong, emotional strong and not triggered … while you hold the space for your Love Partner to do the same …
If you want to build yourself and in turn build your relationships then book a call with me for a chat …
