Where I went wrong in my Marriage 💔
Let me tell you my story / journey, for many Businessmen it will resonate…
From a young age I programmed myself to do whatever it takes to be successful…
It became an obsession …
Influencers praised and encouraged my obsession… and In the earlier years so did Tracey
Then we had 3 kids , pressures and demands grew and so did my obsession…
Over the years of compounding stress, demands & pressure to succeed and provide …
I become out of balance and disconnected…
I used Alcohol as my relief & escape mechanism and I’d dragged Tracey into it as a way to connect…
It was a false connection only heightened by alcohol…
It was how I avoided the hurt, pain & resentment that I had caused over the years…
Our Marriage was declining yearly , I knew it but didn’t want to face it
I tried to control Tracey by using my own shame and guilt …
I was destroying my marriage and didn’t know how to fix it 🥺
How did we transform our Marriage ❓
By transforming ourselves first …
It wasn’t the marriage that was the issue it was how I was showing up in the Marriage that was the issue
I had to break my negative habits, beliefs and behaviors …
I cut alcohol out of my life, and started connecting with Tracey differently …
I worked on the underlying negative programs, fear and worry that drove obsession around chasing success…
I healed my Anger & stress issues so I could bring calm energy into my home and family…
I let go of my mental pictures around what I thought our relationship should be like … so it could evolve to what it is today
I learnt how to truly listen to Tracey without trying to fix her or get triggered by what she said to me
I pivoted my Business to prioritize what was truly important in life …
I committed to working on myself daily so I’m self aware & take responsibility when I’m not doing the above 👆
Everything you want, desire & love in life will evolve in line with your inner evolution…
If you want your marriage to evolve to the next level ❤️
Then heal your Mental programs …
Heal your emotions …
Heal your stressed body & energy …
Heal the old conflicts, hurt & pain in your relationship …
and show up as a balanced, connected Man with unconditional love in your heart ❤️
Its not easy as you’ll need to go on a deep healing and self discovery journey to re-Identify with the Man you truly want to be
To your Success, Live & Happiness
Greg
